Life by Sar

Everyone has a crew- your inner core circle of friends. All it takes is one of them- one of them to spark up and The Rest Begin To Gravitate And  Follow. Before you know it, everyone wants it and everyone has to have it! It’s good for people that have been together for a while because it forces them to think about their future. But lately I’ve been noticing a lot of people making hasty decisions, including the acclaimed "no-matter what I know that I want to wait!" group.  I’m referring to them as hasty decisions because these people were so sure on waiting, that they fought with others to prove their reasons to wait! (If you think I'm talking about you particularly... I'm not... it's a coincidence). But as soon as one of their friend’s gets hitched it’s almost as if a siren went off and all of a sudden everyone is scrambling. What happened to these reasons? Where did they go? No one knows. No one cares. And it's none of my business. Their behavior boggles m...

There are a few things I live by that help me put life into perspective. The one thing I know for sure is that life happens. It happens to me and it happens to you. It happens to us every second of every minute and every minute of the hour. It’s happening all around us and it’s happening regardless of whether we acknowledge it or not. Life happens and shit happens. I also believe in Karma. I’ve learned that what goes around comes around. And that the universe is always telling you something. If there is something you need to know or aren’t sure of start paying attention to what’s around you. It will come to you. “ How people treat you, is there karma. How you react, is yours!” This is also true. We are all defined by our actions. Our thoughts become actions, our actions define character, and that’s how we determine our future. It’s always better to own your thoughts and your actions. Owning allows you to grow which then allows you to establish yourself. Owning is being honest with yo...